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The "Power of Happiness" Salon of Mercure went on smoothly
At 4:00 p.m. on July 21, 2018, a salon centered on "happiness" was held as scheduled at the headquarters of Mercure. The theme of the salon was "happiness power", which was a new exploration of Mercure to relieve the work pressure of employees, improve their happiness and enhance communication among them.
It is our honor to invite Ms. Tian Lin, a practitioner of Adler Psychology and a seeker of the Happiness Course. Mr. Tian helps individuals to see clearly the problems and misunderstandings that may exist in the relationship, so as to improve their coping ability in the intimate relationship and better manage their own work and life.
The salon was hosted by Huang Jing, the manager of the personnel department. While exchanging with many employees, four bosses, Yan, Qiu, Liu and Huang, also participated in the salon. Tian Lin teacher introduced himself as a love of learning ordinary mother, at the beginning of the course called his son as his own little teaching assistant, very love. All the students present were deeply moved by the warm and harmonious atmosphere of the course. Teacher Tian Lin then introduced the theme of "intimate relationship" with a small activity to fill in the "T-shirt", which made everyone have a preliminary perceptive understanding of the theme in a lively atmosphere.
After listening to Tian's explanation of intimate relationships, the students sighed: "It turns out that the highest level of 'intimate' relationships has transcended sexual relationships." Of course, there are intimacy stages in all relationships, and we can still build good relationships at work, regardless of gender. While we long for a happy and harmonious way of being together, we are often "destroyed" by each other's actions and expectations, intentionally or not, resulting in conflict. And then once we get to know intimate relationships, we face the challenge of actually getting along with each other. In order to give you a more intuitive experience of this challenge, Teacher Tian inserted a simulated family game - Teacher Tian Lin invited the volunteers on the scene, simulated lovers and children, pair up to form two people in three groups and three people in four groups, feet tied together, moving forward together. During the whole process, the fun experience culminated with laughter and applause. In addition to the experiencers, everyone present also felt something and learned something, and felt that "when we walk alone, our actions are governed by our will, which dictates where and how we go. But when we build relationships with other people, what we need to balance is the whole family. Only by giving full respect, equality, support and encouragement to each other in our intimate relationship can we go well and long, get what we expect, and make 'walking' easy."
Tian then asked everyone present to write about their partner's good qualities for two minutes and share their feelings about them. Everyone spoke freely. Some wrote down their ideal mate, while others carefully analyzed the qualities of their other half. But without exception, we seldom have this kind of thinking in our daily life, change a pair of eyes of discovery, to appreciate their partner. With the deepening of the activity, tian teacher constantly bring new experiences, although simple, but with deep implication, from deep inside we perceive: in order to survive, we have to deal with the relationship with money, but on relationships with people we often overlooked by too much, the real happiness is need to contact with people, often to appreciate the vision to treat others, if no one is listening, dependence, trust, that is how happiness? "Relationship" is a required course in our life that we must learn!
At the end of the salon, Tian Lin introduced Adler's story and his theory of individual psychology to the students. Adler argues that our childhood influences our current behavior, but that's not the reason. The interpretation of childhood memories is at the heart of what we do.
Finally, Mr. Yan was deeply moved and shared his family life with the students. He told us, "The key to accompany children is to understand what children need and desire. Don't be deceived by the fast pace of life and set aside time to accompany their families. Only by moving out of the home and into work can we cope with life's challenges with a positive and balanced mindset." At the same time, I am very grateful to Ms. Tian Lin for the salon sharing meeting. I hope such meaningful activities can be active in the beauty and beauty, advocating civilized, healthy and optimistic way of life and work, ensuring that our psychology can be better protected and guided, and solving personal work and family life problems in an appropriate way. The words just fell, everyone empathy, the audience sounded a round of applause.
At Mercure, we believe that such beneficial salons will be held frequently, and more people will benefit from them, grasp their own happiness, and achieve both career and life harvest!
